Forming new relationships is scary. You're leaving the safe circle of known friends and family and entering a new world with the potential for long lasting friendship or fleeting superficial connections. Although with new social media we can connect to everyone so easily and yet we still need to try hard to maintain relationships.
Starting a new job or a starting a new course usually makes me feel unease because this mean for this next however long I am going to have spend a ridiculous amount time with these people so it's only in my own interest that I make friends or at the very least make theses people like me. Although I can never let go of the friends that I currently have which I have built through time and hard work but unfortunately life has other plans and we must adapt to the new situation we are thrust into.
The social world is never easy to handle, there are so many constrictions and untold rules that you have to follow. For me I feel like that someone has only told me half the rules and the rest I have to figure it out myself. But in a world where we can't read other people's minds how I am suppose to know that I have done the right thing or said the right things?
Moreover new relationships are difficult to construct and of course one does not to completely ignore new people coming into your life because you never know what they will bring. But if it's so hard to form a connection, should I keep trying?
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